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First Reading: April 14th, 2020
30 minutes -- general reading
I do know we are isolated at the moment (Covid quarantine). I don't think you mind that too much. I think you are an introvert/extravert anyway -- You spend a lot of time on your own anyway.
You are very creative person -- so you tend to spend a lot of your time creating -- I'm not sure whether you do it for work or pleasure -- but if you don't, you should. Do you understand? Does that make sense? Dp you paint? Or draw?
ME: I'm a designer, yes.
You do make money from it -- do you understand what I'm saying?
Me: Yes.
I need to take you back to 2014 -- did something specif happen in 2014?
Me: I don't remember anything ....
Write it down. At some point it will make sense to you. It will just kick into place.
This period is giving you far too much time to think -- Are you over analyzing or thinking a specific situation? I "I should have done this... done that...."
Me: Kind of...
At the moment it feels very intense. Do you want me to cover area of relationship?
Me: Yes.
Because I think your work situation is ok. Can you give me the name of the person you want me to look into?
Me: His name is -M-
He is not near you is he?
Me: We are in the same city.
I feel as if he is....is there something that ended or fizzled out?
Me: Yes and no....
Tell me a little bit. Because I'm not picking up a major event with him.
Me: We had a fling last year -- I broke up with him because he was non committal.
This guy wants a relationship but he does not want to put work into a relationship -- as soon as you have expectations on him -- he doesn't like that. Did he ever turn around and said because you did this or you did that?
Me: No
It just feels to me...he is very -- I don't dislike him -- I'm going to be honest with you -- I don't dislike his energy -- I feel he's a rather deep individual -- Do you understand that?
Me: Yes.
He is not a surface level individual. I feel he is going through his own little bit of a crisis at the moment -- I don't know if he has issues around him -- around paperwork. So that may come to light. Or it may make sense to you in the future.
I don't think there's anybody else around him -- I'm going to be honest with you.
I think you have a nice flowing relationship or friendship at the moment, but it's going to build a bit more. He's very light on communication. Do you understand what I'm saying?
Me: Yes.
It's really hard to get something out of him. I hate to say this -- because I don't like people holding on to things -- he has, like most people holding on to things --he has a lesson to learn -- He's not at the same evolvement level that you are. You are ready for a relationship -- you're ready to settle down -- and you want somebody to commit to you -- and make you feel as if a priority.
He's very deep and very introspective. I see that he can give you those things -- I don't think he can give you those things in the timeline that you want him to -- And you can't speed things up.
I would live your own life -- and I think there are other opportunities coming in -- one this horrible things passes (covid)
What I see is that he'll come in and out of your life -- because he misses you very definitely a good connection there...absolutely. I can't take that away -- there's something very deep about the connection. I feel as he feels it too. But he's not at the point that you are. so if you're looking at a book, you're on chapter 5 and he's still at the prologue. He's got ways to catch up. The choice is going to be yours whether you hang in for this...I think you'll get frustrated. And I think you have other options on the table. Is there someone else you're conversing?
Me: No...
I think that will happen in the future.
It's a weird thing -- because you say you want a relationship and someone commiting to you -- but actually you can be driven mad a little bit if someone is on your face all the time. It's too much for you.
In one hand I think -M- is perfect for you. If you can let go of the expectations that you have on him and let it flow....But it will take time. The more you pull back -- and that's what's spirit is telling -- but it's also a bit psychological as well. The less you give him...the more he'll seek you out. It just takes him a bit longer to get to where he needs to get.
Does he work in the same field as you? I she an artist? or...
Me: Somewhat, he's a developer -- I'm designing one of his buildings.
That makes sense, I just feel you work together -- but separate.
I think this is an ongoing collaboration -- I think it's an ongoing opportunity. But I don't want you to get carried away with the hearts and flowers -- because you are going to get disappointed. Because he is not as forthcoming as he should be. You deserve someone that are totally head over heels in love with you. There's definite emotions there -- he just does not know how to express it. He is an overthinker.
Does he have children?
Me: No...
There's a responsibility that he has -- and he takes his responsibilities very seriously. That is something that you have ti bare in mind.
To me...he's there. There's an attraction...there's certainly a want. But I don't think he is relationship kind of person. If you want someone that you can catch up once a week -- and don't get emotional support -- that goes with a relationship -- than you may well be into something really good. But it depends on what you actually want.
On picking up that you are sick and tired of being the leader, and being the person that drives everything. You want someone that to look after you for once -- not financially -- someone that steps up and knows how you feel. And tries to make you feel good. Instead of just coming up with excuses.
Me: Will he ever build up to that? or not?
I think it will take him a long time -- and a lot of game. I think you can have a very surface relationship with him. I feel he leads you into thinking you're in a relationship -- but he's not giving a relationship. Do you feel that?
Me: No...I don't feel he's giving me a relationship at all...
Maybe it's inclined to do that. To me, it feels like he is not there where you want him to be.
Me: Yes...Just wanted to know if that had a possibility to evolve...
I think it's going to take a long time ... He's not quite at your level yet. I do think you have opportunities coming up -- I think that there's someone rather nice coming in for you -- towards the end of the year. I know it seems like a long way away -- But I think you need to go through the process with -M- this guy.
I think you still dabble with this guy but not in a relationship level. If you can remove the expectations you'll have fun and enjoy the company. He's actually really good company.
Me: I don't want to do that because I'll have my heart broken...
That's why I'm saying you'll have the opportunity to have it if can not get connected.
Me: Well...that ship has sailed.....
He's going to be around for awhile...because I think you'll continue to work together. Does he have another project coming up for you in July/August?
Me: No...
Write it down -- I feel something is coming up around that time.
I feel around you and your personal growth -- I feel you've done a lot of work on the past 2/3 years. To get where you are now. I don't know if you suffered from depression on the past. But I feel as if you pulled yourself out of it to get where you are now. and really understand yourself now. And really understand your needs. That is the most import spirit is saying to me --
Do you know someone called Sarah?
Me: Yes
A close friend? I feel they are going to be in touch with you... news of Sarah -- Not bad news -- it's surprising development of some sort. I don't think you're in touch with this person a lot. They are going to reach out within the next couple of weeks with some news or information.
I feel like your work is really taking off -- do you do commissions or requests? You said you were a designer, But do you paint Do you do something outside of that?
Me: I do. But I haven't in a long time.
Just don't be surprised is someone from the past, or someone that has bought something from you in the past, reaches out and wants you to do another piece -- do you paint?
Me: No -- sculpt.
Just feels there's a specific order for something.
Do you have questions for me?
Me: Can you look at this person coming in?
I think you meet them -- I don't think it's a chance meeting -- introduction through a friend or passing acquaintance.
They are business like -- when you first meet them I don't think there's an instant chemistry -- they feel a bit stilted. But as conversations go on I feel they loosen up a bit -- I think it could be nerves. Are you in your early 40s?
Me: Yes.
They are in their mid 40s and never been married. They are very career oriented -- I want to take this to alegal area -- I feel they are either a lawyer, that kind of thing. And they are quite high in the game that they do -- I also feel that they have a property -- certainly owns a property -- I have no idea where you are -- but feels as if there's water around this property -- Are you near water?
Me: yes.
There's water around this property that they have. I feel the yare quite stilted when you meet them, but the loosen up. I'm going to be honest with you -- I feel like they are family oriented. Not a mummy's boy -- but very much looking after his mother. And she's in the picture. Appearance wise, I'm getting dark hair, tanned skin, and dark eyes, I don't know if that is your type...
I like the feel of him -- Very old school gentleman -- He's not someone that takes the mick out of anything -- knows how to date someone ...
My timing is very loose -- definitely an introduction that happens -- a friend of a friend -- And I see you sitting at a table that is side on to the water-- it's like a long wooden table side on the water and he passes by or he's brought in in another friend or something like that ...Definitely local -- has grown in the area -- I'm not going to say well known family but certainly people around your area know of them -- I think he's built himself a little empire -- I'm not talking about major money -- talking about comfortable.
You have good things coming to your life.
First Reading: April 14th, 2020
30 minutes -- general reading
I do know we are isolated at the moment (Covid quarantine). I don't think you mind that too much. I think you are an introvert/extravert anyway -- You spend a lot of time on your own anyway.
You are very creative person -- so you tend to spend a lot of your time creating -- I'm not sure whether you do it for work or pleasure -- but if you don't, you should. Do you understand? Does that make sense? Dp you paint? Or draw?
ME: I'm a designer, yes.
You do make money from it -- do you understand what I'm saying?
Me: Yes.
I need to take you back to 2014 -- did something specif happen in 2014?
Me: I don't remember anything ....
Write it down. At some point it will make sense to you. It will just kick into place.
This period is giving you far too much time to think -- Are you over analyzing or thinking a specific situation? I "I should have done this... done that...."
Me: Kind of...
At the moment it feels very intense. Do you want me to cover area of relationship?
Me: Yes.
Because I think your work situation is ok. Can you give me the name of the person you want me to look into?
Me: His name is -M-
He is not near you is he?
Me: We are in the same city.
I feel as if he is....is there something that ended or fizzled out?
Me: Yes and no....
Tell me a little bit. Because I'm not picking up a major event with him.
Me: We had a fling last year -- I broke up with him because he was non committal.
This guy wants a relationship but he does not want to put work into a relationship -- as soon as you have expectations on him -- he doesn't like that. Did he ever turn around and said because you did this or you did that?
Me: No
It just feels to me...he is very -- I don't dislike him -- I'm going to be honest with you -- I don't dislike his energy -- I feel he's a rather deep individual -- Do you understand that?
Me: Yes.
He is not a surface level individual. I feel he is going through his own little bit of a crisis at the moment -- I don't know if he has issues around him -- around paperwork. So that may come to light. Or it may make sense to you in the future.
I don't think there's anybody else around him -- I'm going to be honest with you.
I think you have a nice flowing relationship or friendship at the moment, but it's going to build a bit more. He's very light on communication. Do you understand what I'm saying?
Me: Yes.
It's really hard to get something out of him. I hate to say this -- because I don't like people holding on to things -- he has, like most people holding on to things --he has a lesson to learn -- He's not at the same evolvement level that you are. You are ready for a relationship -- you're ready to settle down -- and you want somebody to commit to you -- and make you feel as if a priority.
He's very deep and very introspective. I see that he can give you those things -- I don't think he can give you those things in the timeline that you want him to -- And you can't speed things up.
I would live your own life -- and I think there are other opportunities coming in -- one this horrible things passes (covid)
What I see is that he'll come in and out of your life -- because he misses you very definitely a good connection there...absolutely. I can't take that away -- there's something very deep about the connection. I feel as he feels it too. But he's not at the point that you are. so if you're looking at a book, you're on chapter 5 and he's still at the prologue. He's got ways to catch up. The choice is going to be yours whether you hang in for this...I think you'll get frustrated. And I think you have other options on the table. Is there someone else you're conversing?
Me: No...
I think that will happen in the future.
It's a weird thing -- because you say you want a relationship and someone commiting to you -- but actually you can be driven mad a little bit if someone is on your face all the time. It's too much for you.
In one hand I think -M- is perfect for you. If you can let go of the expectations that you have on him and let it flow....But it will take time. The more you pull back -- and that's what's spirit is telling -- but it's also a bit psychological as well. The less you give him...the more he'll seek you out. It just takes him a bit longer to get to where he needs to get.
Does he work in the same field as you? I she an artist? or...
Me: Somewhat, he's a developer -- I'm designing one of his buildings.
That makes sense, I just feel you work together -- but separate.
I think this is an ongoing collaboration -- I think it's an ongoing opportunity. But I don't want you to get carried away with the hearts and flowers -- because you are going to get disappointed. Because he is not as forthcoming as he should be. You deserve someone that are totally head over heels in love with you. There's definite emotions there -- he just does not know how to express it. He is an overthinker.
Does he have children?
Me: No...
There's a responsibility that he has -- and he takes his responsibilities very seriously. That is something that you have ti bare in mind.
To me...he's there. There's an attraction...there's certainly a want. But I don't think he is relationship kind of person. If you want someone that you can catch up once a week -- and don't get emotional support -- that goes with a relationship -- than you may well be into something really good. But it depends on what you actually want.
On picking up that you are sick and tired of being the leader, and being the person that drives everything. You want someone that to look after you for once -- not financially -- someone that steps up and knows how you feel. And tries to make you feel good. Instead of just coming up with excuses.
Me: Will he ever build up to that? or not?
I think it will take him a long time -- and a lot of game. I think you can have a very surface relationship with him. I feel he leads you into thinking you're in a relationship -- but he's not giving a relationship. Do you feel that?
Me: No...I don't feel he's giving me a relationship at all...
Maybe it's inclined to do that. To me, it feels like he is not there where you want him to be.
Me: Yes...Just wanted to know if that had a possibility to evolve...
I think it's going to take a long time ... He's not quite at your level yet. I do think you have opportunities coming up -- I think that there's someone rather nice coming in for you -- towards the end of the year. I know it seems like a long way away -- But I think you need to go through the process with -M- this guy.
I think you still dabble with this guy but not in a relationship level. If you can remove the expectations you'll have fun and enjoy the company. He's actually really good company.
Me: I don't want to do that because I'll have my heart broken...
That's why I'm saying you'll have the opportunity to have it if can not get connected.
Me: Well...that ship has sailed.....
He's going to be around for awhile...because I think you'll continue to work together. Does he have another project coming up for you in July/August?
Me: No...
Write it down -- I feel something is coming up around that time.
I feel around you and your personal growth -- I feel you've done a lot of work on the past 2/3 years. To get where you are now. I don't know if you suffered from depression on the past. But I feel as if you pulled yourself out of it to get where you are now. and really understand yourself now. And really understand your needs. That is the most import spirit is saying to me --
Do you know someone called Sarah?
Me: Yes
A close friend? I feel they are going to be in touch with you... news of Sarah -- Not bad news -- it's surprising development of some sort. I don't think you're in touch with this person a lot. They are going to reach out within the next couple of weeks with some news or information.
I feel like your work is really taking off -- do you do commissions or requests? You said you were a designer, But do you paint Do you do something outside of that?
Me: I do. But I haven't in a long time.
Just don't be surprised is someone from the past, or someone that has bought something from you in the past, reaches out and wants you to do another piece -- do you paint?
Me: No -- sculpt.
Just feels there's a specific order for something.
Do you have questions for me?
Me: Can you look at this person coming in?
I think you meet them -- I don't think it's a chance meeting -- introduction through a friend or passing acquaintance.
They are business like -- when you first meet them I don't think there's an instant chemistry -- they feel a bit stilted. But as conversations go on I feel they loosen up a bit -- I think it could be nerves. Are you in your early 40s?
Me: Yes.
They are in their mid 40s and never been married. They are very career oriented -- I want to take this to alegal area -- I feel they are either a lawyer, that kind of thing. And they are quite high in the game that they do -- I also feel that they have a property -- certainly owns a property -- I have no idea where you are -- but feels as if there's water around this property -- Are you near water?
Me: yes.
There's water around this property that they have. I feel the yare quite stilted when you meet them, but the loosen up. I'm going to be honest with you -- I feel like they are family oriented. Not a mummy's boy -- but very much looking after his mother. And she's in the picture. Appearance wise, I'm getting dark hair, tanned skin, and dark eyes, I don't know if that is your type...
I like the feel of him -- Very old school gentleman -- He's not someone that takes the mick out of anything -- knows how to date someone ...
My timing is very loose -- definitely an introduction that happens -- a friend of a friend -- And I see you sitting at a table that is side on to the water-- it's like a long wooden table side on the water and he passes by or he's brought in in another friend or something like that ...Definitely local -- has grown in the area -- I'm not going to say well known family but certainly people around your area know of them -- I think he's built himself a little empire -- I'm not talking about major money -- talking about comfortable.
You have good things coming to your life.