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First reading: May 4th -- she didn't connect with me so we scheduled for May 5th and we connected.
One hour phone reading with crystal ball.
--Knight of swords - center one
--Shadow card -- king of swords
--Decision ahead of you -- weighing options -- decisions
--Your challenge is a difficult man
--It's an existing connection
--Saying this is an obstruction on one way or another. Over the next few months -- challenge over the next few (3?) months.
--By challenge is you can't stay as you are -- that wouldn't be progress.
--You do have an element of choice in it
--Your challenge is with this self absorbed individual
--The things you'd like to talk about you can't -- not yet -- not currently -- it says he has his fingers in his ears.
--Obstruction to communication
--You can not lose site of your individual path -- "What's best for me."
--There's passion and chemistry
--The problem is: Where is it heading? (So I asked: where is it heading -- she said let's see...in the end if the reading.)
--His relationship circumstances are complicated. Queen of cups -- can be an ex -- There's another woman's influence.
--Disadvantage: she's manipulative -- tactical
--This is not someone he looks up to and she does not look up to him.
--She knows what strings to pull to get a reaction
--This is not a deal breaker but it is a complication
--This is not an influence he can shrug off -- and she will put a fight
--A lot of potential -- but he is not fulfilling it yet. Lacks vision -- how things can work out.
--When he knows what he is meant to do ... and convinced it will work ...Than he'll go do it. He needs that surge of enthusiasm. --He is not currently experiencing that. Lacks vision of a way forward.
--He is looking for an escape route but he hasn't identified it yet.
--He is slow to process emotions -- keeps things nice in the surface.
--It's easy to flatter his ego
--Triggering change -- he can avoid that
--He won't step forward at his own accord
--He is competitive -- gives something for you to work with
--He is competitive and has an ego -- these are two tools for you
--He is not the romantic hero -- that is not how he sees life. And not on his list of priorities.
--He is feeling trapped -- not in an ideal situation
--He does want more -- but does not know how to get there.
--You two are looking at the same thing but seeing at different viewpoints.
--You see the potential and tou don't know why he doesn't act on it. He doesn't act on it is because it's not on his priority list.
--He can be enthusiastic about parts of it. But anything else he just feels is too much pressure.
--If he has to work hard to get it-- he gets motivated -- makes things happen.
--He lacks vision for the future -- has different priorities
--He is capable of doing partnership -- commitment -- but it has to seem like the logical next step
--Not as -- I've been captured...
--He sees echos in you that he saw in other people -- that didn't work out well for him.
--He is going to be cautious
--You've got an 8 of cups is a strong position -- You are smart and loving -- You have to look at your own motives. So you don't repeat the patterns of the past.
--***changing your pattern in 2 weeks -- you process things quickly -- "I've done this before ....or that didn't work .... "
--Knowing your worth and knowing your value
--He can get there -- you want to be the desirable option -- you don't have to make allowances.
--He is used to people trying to win him over
--He is used to women behaving in a certain way -- (I asked: what way?)
--They want to settle down -- they see that more as a goal.
--He sees more as an adventure -- he likes being the prize
--Choosing the right bits to flatter -- and being sparing with flattery
--What he needs is encouragement with career and lifestyle choices.
--Part of the reason he is so difficult is that he is not so happy with what he is doing at the moment -- he is in a crossroad
--He is ambitious
--Encouraging i the work -- diversifying -- anything where he thinks you share the same ambition -- vision -- that excites him.
--If somebody is interested in what they do -- encouraging -- then he'll know that any flattery is genuine.
--He wants to be more likes for what he is rather than a romantic figure.
--He does not see himself as the romantic figure -- he lacks in that area.
--If you are the prize -- rather than making demands -- don't be a doormat -- he shouldn't assume that you want him.
--He needs to put the effort -- it's not because you are a princess -- it's knowing your value.
--You can see the potential -- but until he proves it -- and delivers it
--He can understand that -- he can get there
--He is not emotionally sophisticated.
--He is a proper Knight of wands -- but I'm not seeing him at his best.
--Doesn't like to talk too much
--When they say something they mean it
--***You have a couple of months to makeup your mind.
--How often do you meet someone that has that kind of chemistry -- that you like ....
--Do I think this is a hopeless case? ....I don't think so .....
--But it's not the romantic fairy tale
--He is not looking for a partnership -- settle down -- this is not even in his checklist -- But it doesn't mean he can't move that up quite rapidly.
--You are approaching the same thing from different angles.
--Plus he has complications -- but the complications are not deal breakers.
--Your biggest rival is his career
--He is attractive
--He knows he is a good catch
--You're good company
--He likes you
--There's chemistry
It's more fun with you than without you
--If something feels right -- it usually works.
--You are at different stages at the journey
--But he can makes changes if he feels it's a logicall good idea
--This is practice for you
--You have past patterns that need to be sorted
--5 of cups -- you are independent
--This person is not out of your league
--Can you capture him? Yes-- when you workout the psychology
--You have a fear of loss -- rejection
--Not his fault -- now and then you have this horrible feeling...
--This is not directly related to the relationship
--Take a deep breath -- explore your options -- you like what you pick up this far -- why would you back up at his point?
--Most of this is going to come down to whether you can play to your strengths or not.
--You are going through a process of reinvention -- you've got the magician -- playing to your strengths -- set up challenges in all areas of your life.
--Single and independent
--Puts you in a positions that you're more equal
--***You are going to buy another property -- I see you looking at property -- not this year -- 6 of swords -- part of a cycle of change -- I'd' say 75% you move -- Can be an investment -- But it's not because things are going wrong ... it's because things are going right -- could be in connection to your love life down the line.
--This guy is not your only option
--Can learn a lot from this -- I'd say this is practice ground -- part of your path
--***He will disappoint you -- He is not the romantic hero -- it's rather if you can handle it differently.
--***Older couple -- brown eyes -- disappointing news -- not devastating -- not the worst case scenario -- you worry at the time -- you will be taking a trip -- not part of your routine -- short notice trip -- life will be chaotic at that point -- stepping out of your comfort zone -- you're stressed -- things not going according to plan -- not enough hours in the day -- sorting things out -- this is not about your love life--
--It doesn't say you have made a decision yet
--You don't have the big love card yet
--It's in front of you not behind you
--What's disappointing you is that there is d=so much going on but he is not supportive
--Not dismissive-- it's because there's so much going on with them -- he's oblivious.
--Lacks emotional sophistication
--***This bit you'll be pissed with him
--A leopard will not change his spots -- not out of cruelty -- or of care-- it's lack of observation -- of empathy
--Look at this particular bit as a matter of fact.
--***This will be a crossroads -- you will decide if you want this as a romantic figure.
--You can have the passion -- you can compete -- you can win him over as partner
--But the lack of emotional empathy -- is that a deal breaker for you? This will be a few months down the line.
--The status will not bring the emotional connection
--He can only deal with what's under his nose
--He is not texting because he wants a partnership now -- nothing the matter with that -- it's a starting point.
--Looking at the cards -- it says he can do partnership -- if it's working ii if its great -- why wouldn't he want to?
--Where I'm concerned is that you'll expect him to understand your emotions -- he sees partnership as pressure.
--It has to evolve logically -- and he has to pursue it as well. He can only do that in patches because that's how he is.
--But if you stop mentioning partnership -- what are you doing for the holidays next year ... than he'll wonder...
Go for companionship and encouragement -- can evolve and develop -- but the minute he thinks that you are playing a stacking game at a particular path -- he'll become difficult.
--He won't lie to you -- he'll give his reasons why he can't do it at the moment
--You'll receive it as rejection -- even though it's not meant that way.
YOu like each other -- you can get on -- you can have partnership -- but to would be as an evolution over time -- only when you're more confident in yourself
ex: Hey I just ran a marathon -- I just bungee jumped.. He likes that -- He likes likes people that achieve. That are confident in themselves. Boost the connection -- more desirable.
--ME: Can this evolve into a committed relationship? Yes -- but there's no shortcuts or magic words with him.
--Can he do partnership? absolutely
--Can he do loyalty -- yes -- he does not want to complicate his life. no drama.
--The big sticking point -- you want romance and you want committed partnership -- he wants companionship and passion and to feel good. And to feel he's got someone really -- that he's lucky. That he's got to stay on his toes -- so he feels he has someone of high value.
--That absolutely can work -- but he used to women twisting it....all of a sudden the yare talking about settling down.
--He won't change - be he can evolve.
--The chemistry is a good starting point
--You're both stubborn -- not a deal breaker
--He will make you jealous -- because of QOC -- not a deal breaker
--It's whether you think it's worth exploring this option -- if this feels like a burden -- a weight -- then it's best if you walk away.
--If you explore this connection as 2 people that like each other and see where it goes -- than you can win.
--He will not turn into a prince charming -- he won't know how to.
--There's a directness -- you ask -- he'll will answer
--Don't go too deep with this one.
--Has an ego that likes to be stroked. He likes to know that he is charming.
--*** Consider yourself single. so there's no pressure -- so you don't think that this is a partnership that is not measuring up.
--You are not at that stage yet.
--You're holding back -- not a big love card on the table yet.
--Hold back on the deep stuff until you can see the appropriate time to lower the guard a bit. self preservation
--Also gives you the possibility of more choices.
--If there's an element of detachment -- you ca be objective.
--You can learn to handle him
--He's competitive
--As you discover more -- that you're good at different things -- I think you'll see that he tries even harder.
--He can not multi task in an emotional processing how you're feeling -- But it doesn't have to be guess work -- communicate well.
--It's not hopeless to what your challenges are
--***You can't leave it as it is now.
--If you can be ok of how he is -- and you can handle him in a rather different way -- go for it -- why not.
--But he is not what you pictured for yourself. Does not mean it's awful -- means it's different.
--He absolutely can do partnership -- but he is stubborn -- creature of habit.
--He can do grand gestures -- then he'll go back to the way he was before. -- Spurts --
--You put the cart in front of the horses -- don't have expectations
--You both are equally attracted to each other
--You both have the same starting point
--It's just your end goals here are different -- But lets face it, if he was offering partnership right away -- you'd feel there's something wrong.
--Just see how it goes
--Don't need to define this at this point
--If you're the high-value parson, trust me -- he'll make an effort -- that's the reassurance you get.
--You won't get that early stages -- it wouldn't make any sense.
--His hesitancy is not a bad thing
--YOUR OUTCOME CARD -- you'll have other crossroads regarding relationships. Don't fear crossroads -- it's where you choose a longer term path -- it's not a rush straight to commitment -- you're choosing paths as you go along.
--Boosting your self esteem -- putting yourself to the test -- takes your focus out of your love life -- you're good at multitasking -- Spread the focus -- than you'll be the queen of wands -- ideal combination.
--If you get on -- why wouldn't he want more of that -- you like each other
--Just give him the time to prove it -- to show you
--He can pick up when A woman is trying to manipulate him
--Absolutely not a hopeless case
--I'd call it a learning experience
--If you let it unfold at its own ime -- don't limit it -- don't try to define it.
--You don't know yet -- you could look at this crossroads point and think : you're hot -- but you bore me to tears...you're not for me
--He hasn't won you yet -- keep your options open
--Not repeating patterns
--There's a purpose to it --- I don't know what the purpose is -- but that's how they are showing it.
--Explore it -- the minute you make up your mind up -- now you can back off
--It will be a constructive decision
--It's always easier to leave someone than to be left
--He thinks he's the prize -- that is the current mindset
--He needs ti up his game
--He does well with encouragement
--Nagging doesn't work
--When he is encouraged -- you can see the effect -- You are a source of empowerment -- That's bonding
--ex: "that's a good idea.... I could really get into having a cottage by the lake etc...."
--He lacks vision for the future -- so putting on choices bits -- they can achieve -- he loves it.
--You can shape the direction of every relationship
--He's no prince charming -- he is difficult -- misses thing out -- there's a basic honesty about him
--I don't think he's vile -- or a waste of time -- he's quite set on his ways
--King of Swords / Knight of cups combination
--He can be kind -- demonstrative -- but get that in patches
--He does not want to hurt people
--You'll learn a lot from this and enjoy parts of it.
--Without a question -- I know you have a long term partnership ahead of you -- you've got long term relationship ahead of you -- I can see in the crystal -- but it's not reflected on the time frame your cards looked at. Looked at 6 months.
--This is a necessary patch -- the sooner that you engage with it -- the faster you'll get to the rewarding bit
--Partnership is not the question here (cards) -- This is about expectations and regaining confidence
--Because you'll make decisions based on a position of strength.
--You want a good partnership -- and that is not decided on levels of chemistry -- it's on the balance of power
--Partnership is the balancing of 2 peoples energies -- equally important to each other
--I'd say explore this -- you'll know when you get to that point (partnership)
--Not kicking in -- in the next 6 to 7 months
-- You are not actually ready -- you are learning how you can influence and shape your connections
--But then you could actually decide whether this is somebody you want to be with -- knowing their strengths and their weakness
--He does lack insight and empathy -- it's not necessarily a deal breaker but you might get to that crossroads and think "I want somebody that is more emotionally attuned with me."
--But you can only decide that at that point
--*** Making sense of this and making a decision is part of your path
--Sometimes the universe sends us people so you know what you want and don't want -- and bang off you go. You get it.
--This one wasn't shown as the only person for you -- they didn't have unique symbols (cards)
--But I think you might as well explore the chemistry -- he's not a monter.
--So why not discover what you want and don't want -- and also that you have power to walk away
--You have a lot ahead of you -- you still have a long term partnership ahead of you
--You will learn about self with this one
--I'm not saying it won't work -- It's showing as open ended.
--Absolutely you could partnership -- but that would be something that would evolve over time -- because it's not in his radar.
--He can do partnership -- he can do faithful -- but he is not hurrying towards it for a number of reasons.
--I'd say give it go -- and if you feel this is too boring -- too slow moving -- than you'll move forward
--But if you cut to the chase without developing your confidence you won't be ready for the next.
--This is part of the path
--Would I have predicted long term partnership -- No -- but I can see it on the chrystal.
--You have the hands fastening -- how witches get married with a cord -- bond for life
--Hands clasped -- not holding hands -- hands clasped, but showing with strings hanging down -- which means it hasn't happened yet.
--Partnership ahead of you -- what you are doing is taking the steps to see if it's the right one -- than you're entering at the strongest position you can
Confidence of aiming high -- is what comes when you build your self esteem up
--I think you'll make a good choice
--He is not a monster but he is far from a romantic hero
--Says he is difficult -- lacks insight
--He is worried about people putting pressure on him -- have certain expectations -- very focussed on achieving career wise
--He felt held back when I was touching his card -- but when it's flowing he's much easier to to get on with -- so if business is bad he'd be hard work -- but when it's going good -- and he has lots to motivate him -- he's a pleasure -- it's important to him.
--This is saying you can shape it and if the disappointment that he's a romantic hero emerges, or he is not doing what you hoped or expected -- than you'd back off and move on.
--You won't stay in the limbo with this one
--And you'd not repeat the pattern if you break it off -- that would be it.
--If you think he is worth the effort -- the learning experience -- it's living life -- and he's quite nice than absolutely you can shape it and partnership is possible.
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First reading: May 4th -- she didn't connect with me so we scheduled for May 5th and we connected.
One hour phone reading with crystal ball.
--Knight of swords - center one
--Shadow card -- king of swords
--Decision ahead of you -- weighing options -- decisions
--Your challenge is a difficult man
--It's an existing connection
--Saying this is an obstruction on one way or another. Over the next few months -- challenge over the next few (3?) months.
--By challenge is you can't stay as you are -- that wouldn't be progress.
--You do have an element of choice in it
--Your challenge is with this self absorbed individual
--The things you'd like to talk about you can't -- not yet -- not currently -- it says he has his fingers in his ears.
--Obstruction to communication
--You can not lose site of your individual path -- "What's best for me."
--There's passion and chemistry
--The problem is: Where is it heading? (So I asked: where is it heading -- she said let's see...in the end if the reading.)
--His relationship circumstances are complicated. Queen of cups -- can be an ex -- There's another woman's influence.
--Disadvantage: she's manipulative -- tactical
--This is not someone he looks up to and she does not look up to him.
--She knows what strings to pull to get a reaction
--This is not a deal breaker but it is a complication
--This is not an influence he can shrug off -- and she will put a fight
--A lot of potential -- but he is not fulfilling it yet. Lacks vision -- how things can work out.
--When he knows what he is meant to do ... and convinced it will work ...Than he'll go do it. He needs that surge of enthusiasm. --He is not currently experiencing that. Lacks vision of a way forward.
--He is looking for an escape route but he hasn't identified it yet.
--He is slow to process emotions -- keeps things nice in the surface.
--It's easy to flatter his ego
--Triggering change -- he can avoid that
--He won't step forward at his own accord
--He is competitive -- gives something for you to work with
--He is competitive and has an ego -- these are two tools for you
--He is not the romantic hero -- that is not how he sees life. And not on his list of priorities.
--He is feeling trapped -- not in an ideal situation
--He does want more -- but does not know how to get there.
--You two are looking at the same thing but seeing at different viewpoints.
--You see the potential and tou don't know why he doesn't act on it. He doesn't act on it is because it's not on his priority list.
--He can be enthusiastic about parts of it. But anything else he just feels is too much pressure.
--If he has to work hard to get it-- he gets motivated -- makes things happen.
--He lacks vision for the future -- has different priorities
--He is capable of doing partnership -- commitment -- but it has to seem like the logical next step
--Not as -- I've been captured...
--He sees echos in you that he saw in other people -- that didn't work out well for him.
--He is going to be cautious
--You've got an 8 of cups is a strong position -- You are smart and loving -- You have to look at your own motives. So you don't repeat the patterns of the past.
--***changing your pattern in 2 weeks -- you process things quickly -- "I've done this before ....or that didn't work .... "
--Knowing your worth and knowing your value
--He can get there -- you want to be the desirable option -- you don't have to make allowances.
--He is used to people trying to win him over
--He is used to women behaving in a certain way -- (I asked: what way?)
--They want to settle down -- they see that more as a goal.
--He sees more as an adventure -- he likes being the prize
--Choosing the right bits to flatter -- and being sparing with flattery
--What he needs is encouragement with career and lifestyle choices.
--Part of the reason he is so difficult is that he is not so happy with what he is doing at the moment -- he is in a crossroad
--He is ambitious
--Encouraging i the work -- diversifying -- anything where he thinks you share the same ambition -- vision -- that excites him.
--If somebody is interested in what they do -- encouraging -- then he'll know that any flattery is genuine.
--He wants to be more likes for what he is rather than a romantic figure.
--He does not see himself as the romantic figure -- he lacks in that area.
--If you are the prize -- rather than making demands -- don't be a doormat -- he shouldn't assume that you want him.
--He needs to put the effort -- it's not because you are a princess -- it's knowing your value.
--You can see the potential -- but until he proves it -- and delivers it
--He can understand that -- he can get there
--He is not emotionally sophisticated.
--He is a proper Knight of wands -- but I'm not seeing him at his best.
--Doesn't like to talk too much
--When they say something they mean it
--***You have a couple of months to makeup your mind.
--How often do you meet someone that has that kind of chemistry -- that you like ....
--Do I think this is a hopeless case? ....I don't think so .....
--But it's not the romantic fairy tale
--He is not looking for a partnership -- settle down -- this is not even in his checklist -- But it doesn't mean he can't move that up quite rapidly.
--You are approaching the same thing from different angles.
--Plus he has complications -- but the complications are not deal breakers.
--Your biggest rival is his career
--He is attractive
--He knows he is a good catch
--You're good company
--He likes you
--There's chemistry
It's more fun with you than without you
--If something feels right -- it usually works.
--You are at different stages at the journey
--But he can makes changes if he feels it's a logicall good idea
--This is practice for you
--You have past patterns that need to be sorted
--5 of cups -- you are independent
--This person is not out of your league
--Can you capture him? Yes-- when you workout the psychology
--You have a fear of loss -- rejection
--Not his fault -- now and then you have this horrible feeling...
--This is not directly related to the relationship
--Take a deep breath -- explore your options -- you like what you pick up this far -- why would you back up at his point?
--Most of this is going to come down to whether you can play to your strengths or not.
--You are going through a process of reinvention -- you've got the magician -- playing to your strengths -- set up challenges in all areas of your life.
--Single and independent
--Puts you in a positions that you're more equal
--***You are going to buy another property -- I see you looking at property -- not this year -- 6 of swords -- part of a cycle of change -- I'd' say 75% you move -- Can be an investment -- But it's not because things are going wrong ... it's because things are going right -- could be in connection to your love life down the line.
--This guy is not your only option
--Can learn a lot from this -- I'd say this is practice ground -- part of your path
--***He will disappoint you -- He is not the romantic hero -- it's rather if you can handle it differently.
--***Older couple -- brown eyes -- disappointing news -- not devastating -- not the worst case scenario -- you worry at the time -- you will be taking a trip -- not part of your routine -- short notice trip -- life will be chaotic at that point -- stepping out of your comfort zone -- you're stressed -- things not going according to plan -- not enough hours in the day -- sorting things out -- this is not about your love life--
--It doesn't say you have made a decision yet
--You don't have the big love card yet
--It's in front of you not behind you
--What's disappointing you is that there is d=so much going on but he is not supportive
--Not dismissive-- it's because there's so much going on with them -- he's oblivious.
--Lacks emotional sophistication
--***This bit you'll be pissed with him
--A leopard will not change his spots -- not out of cruelty -- or of care-- it's lack of observation -- of empathy
--Look at this particular bit as a matter of fact.
--***This will be a crossroads -- you will decide if you want this as a romantic figure.
--You can have the passion -- you can compete -- you can win him over as partner
--But the lack of emotional empathy -- is that a deal breaker for you? This will be a few months down the line.
--The status will not bring the emotional connection
--He can only deal with what's under his nose
--He is not texting because he wants a partnership now -- nothing the matter with that -- it's a starting point.
--Looking at the cards -- it says he can do partnership -- if it's working ii if its great -- why wouldn't he want to?
--Where I'm concerned is that you'll expect him to understand your emotions -- he sees partnership as pressure.
--It has to evolve logically -- and he has to pursue it as well. He can only do that in patches because that's how he is.
--But if you stop mentioning partnership -- what are you doing for the holidays next year ... than he'll wonder...
Go for companionship and encouragement -- can evolve and develop -- but the minute he thinks that you are playing a stacking game at a particular path -- he'll become difficult.
--He won't lie to you -- he'll give his reasons why he can't do it at the moment
--You'll receive it as rejection -- even though it's not meant that way.
YOu like each other -- you can get on -- you can have partnership -- but to would be as an evolution over time -- only when you're more confident in yourself
ex: Hey I just ran a marathon -- I just bungee jumped.. He likes that -- He likes likes people that achieve. That are confident in themselves. Boost the connection -- more desirable.
--ME: Can this evolve into a committed relationship? Yes -- but there's no shortcuts or magic words with him.
--Can he do partnership? absolutely
--Can he do loyalty -- yes -- he does not want to complicate his life. no drama.
--The big sticking point -- you want romance and you want committed partnership -- he wants companionship and passion and to feel good. And to feel he's got someone really -- that he's lucky. That he's got to stay on his toes -- so he feels he has someone of high value.
--That absolutely can work -- but he used to women twisting it....all of a sudden the yare talking about settling down.
--He won't change - be he can evolve.
--The chemistry is a good starting point
--You're both stubborn -- not a deal breaker
--He will make you jealous -- because of QOC -- not a deal breaker
--It's whether you think it's worth exploring this option -- if this feels like a burden -- a weight -- then it's best if you walk away.
--If you explore this connection as 2 people that like each other and see where it goes -- than you can win.
--He will not turn into a prince charming -- he won't know how to.
--There's a directness -- you ask -- he'll will answer
--Don't go too deep with this one.
--Has an ego that likes to be stroked. He likes to know that he is charming.
--*** Consider yourself single. so there's no pressure -- so you don't think that this is a partnership that is not measuring up.
--You are not at that stage yet.
--You're holding back -- not a big love card on the table yet.
--Hold back on the deep stuff until you can see the appropriate time to lower the guard a bit. self preservation
--Also gives you the possibility of more choices.
--If there's an element of detachment -- you ca be objective.
--You can learn to handle him
--He's competitive
--As you discover more -- that you're good at different things -- I think you'll see that he tries even harder.
--He can not multi task in an emotional processing how you're feeling -- But it doesn't have to be guess work -- communicate well.
--It's not hopeless to what your challenges are
--***You can't leave it as it is now.
--If you can be ok of how he is -- and you can handle him in a rather different way -- go for it -- why not.
--But he is not what you pictured for yourself. Does not mean it's awful -- means it's different.
--He absolutely can do partnership -- but he is stubborn -- creature of habit.
--He can do grand gestures -- then he'll go back to the way he was before. -- Spurts --
--You put the cart in front of the horses -- don't have expectations
--You both are equally attracted to each other
--You both have the same starting point
--It's just your end goals here are different -- But lets face it, if he was offering partnership right away -- you'd feel there's something wrong.
--Just see how it goes
--Don't need to define this at this point
--If you're the high-value parson, trust me -- he'll make an effort -- that's the reassurance you get.
--You won't get that early stages -- it wouldn't make any sense.
--His hesitancy is not a bad thing
--YOUR OUTCOME CARD -- you'll have other crossroads regarding relationships. Don't fear crossroads -- it's where you choose a longer term path -- it's not a rush straight to commitment -- you're choosing paths as you go along.
--Boosting your self esteem -- putting yourself to the test -- takes your focus out of your love life -- you're good at multitasking -- Spread the focus -- than you'll be the queen of wands -- ideal combination.
--If you get on -- why wouldn't he want more of that -- you like each other
--Just give him the time to prove it -- to show you
--He can pick up when A woman is trying to manipulate him
--Absolutely not a hopeless case
--I'd call it a learning experience
--If you let it unfold at its own ime -- don't limit it -- don't try to define it.
--You don't know yet -- you could look at this crossroads point and think : you're hot -- but you bore me to tears...you're not for me
--He hasn't won you yet -- keep your options open
--Not repeating patterns
--There's a purpose to it --- I don't know what the purpose is -- but that's how they are showing it.
--Explore it -- the minute you make up your mind up -- now you can back off
--It will be a constructive decision
--It's always easier to leave someone than to be left
--He thinks he's the prize -- that is the current mindset
--He needs ti up his game
--He does well with encouragement
--Nagging doesn't work
--When he is encouraged -- you can see the effect -- You are a source of empowerment -- That's bonding
--ex: "that's a good idea.... I could really get into having a cottage by the lake etc...."
--He lacks vision for the future -- so putting on choices bits -- they can achieve -- he loves it.
--You can shape the direction of every relationship
--He's no prince charming -- he is difficult -- misses thing out -- there's a basic honesty about him
--I don't think he's vile -- or a waste of time -- he's quite set on his ways
--King of Swords / Knight of cups combination
--He can be kind -- demonstrative -- but get that in patches
--He does not want to hurt people
--You'll learn a lot from this and enjoy parts of it.
--Without a question -- I know you have a long term partnership ahead of you -- you've got long term relationship ahead of you -- I can see in the crystal -- but it's not reflected on the time frame your cards looked at. Looked at 6 months.
--This is a necessary patch -- the sooner that you engage with it -- the faster you'll get to the rewarding bit
--Partnership is not the question here (cards) -- This is about expectations and regaining confidence
--Because you'll make decisions based on a position of strength.
--You want a good partnership -- and that is not decided on levels of chemistry -- it's on the balance of power
--Partnership is the balancing of 2 peoples energies -- equally important to each other
--I'd say explore this -- you'll know when you get to that point (partnership)
--Not kicking in -- in the next 6 to 7 months
-- You are not actually ready -- you are learning how you can influence and shape your connections
--But then you could actually decide whether this is somebody you want to be with -- knowing their strengths and their weakness
--He does lack insight and empathy -- it's not necessarily a deal breaker but you might get to that crossroads and think "I want somebody that is more emotionally attuned with me."
--But you can only decide that at that point
--*** Making sense of this and making a decision is part of your path
--Sometimes the universe sends us people so you know what you want and don't want -- and bang off you go. You get it.
--This one wasn't shown as the only person for you -- they didn't have unique symbols (cards)
--But I think you might as well explore the chemistry -- he's not a monter.
--So why not discover what you want and don't want -- and also that you have power to walk away
--You have a lot ahead of you -- you still have a long term partnership ahead of you
--You will learn about self with this one
--I'm not saying it won't work -- It's showing as open ended.
--Absolutely you could partnership -- but that would be something that would evolve over time -- because it's not in his radar.
--He can do partnership -- he can do faithful -- but he is not hurrying towards it for a number of reasons.
--I'd say give it go -- and if you feel this is too boring -- too slow moving -- than you'll move forward
--But if you cut to the chase without developing your confidence you won't be ready for the next.
--This is part of the path
--Would I have predicted long term partnership -- No -- but I can see it on the chrystal.
--You have the hands fastening -- how witches get married with a cord -- bond for life
--Hands clasped -- not holding hands -- hands clasped, but showing with strings hanging down -- which means it hasn't happened yet.
--Partnership ahead of you -- what you are doing is taking the steps to see if it's the right one -- than you're entering at the strongest position you can
Confidence of aiming high -- is what comes when you build your self esteem up
--I think you'll make a good choice
--He is not a monster but he is far from a romantic hero
--Says he is difficult -- lacks insight
--He is worried about people putting pressure on him -- have certain expectations -- very focussed on achieving career wise
--He felt held back when I was touching his card -- but when it's flowing he's much easier to to get on with -- so if business is bad he'd be hard work -- but when it's going good -- and he has lots to motivate him -- he's a pleasure -- it's important to him.
--This is saying you can shape it and if the disappointment that he's a romantic hero emerges, or he is not doing what you hoped or expected -- than you'd back off and move on.
--You won't stay in the limbo with this one
--And you'd not repeat the pattern if you break it off -- that would be it.
--If you think he is worth the effort -- the learning experience -- it's living life -- and he's quite nice than absolutely you can shape it and partnership is possible.
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